Adult society sucks. It sucks hard. All those messed up teens you might've been tempted to sock in the jaw have grown up to be even worse Aholes. They've gotten time to marinade in it, got all religious with it and convinced themselves that that is how God wanted it. But there were still doubts in their minds and so they sought each other out to convince each other. Now there's a network of them out there, ever growing, because it's so much easier to be an Ahole.
So good luck. That's the truth about adult society. There are books out there, even sutras, to help you understand the adult social structure and how to navigate it. You'll have to put up with some pretentiousness, moral compromises, and the mother of all problems - the will of the majority... it crushes everything in its way and must be approached delicately, and if it so happens to approach you then you handle it delicately.
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Why people are predicting I may or may not have a wife. Or may but my wife doesn't want it. Or may I become a terrible father because of destiny. What is the solution God? I am hurting my brain. Free me.