Ifpatriot, I'm curious to know what you were rated in the first year or two of playing,.
I never had a rating then. I was probably about 8 years old. My dad knew how to play and he taught me. It wasn't until grade school that they found out I knew how to play chess and wanted me to play on the school team. By then I was a lot better, about 1500.
That was kind of fun. I played a few local non school tournaments and my rating got up to the mid 1700s. But I thought it was kind of silly that all these old people would sit for hours on end staring at the board, trying as hard as they can just to win. That did not look very enjoyable. So I started playing more socially and stopped playing in any tournaments.
I feel like I'm quite a bit better now, but over the years maybe not as much as I think. Almost everyone in our family plays, so that's fun. And a few friends play but wine is mandatory.
So it's all about enjoying it. I know some people enjoy playing seriously and if that's what they want to do, they should. But that just wasn't for me. I quickly realized 1700 is great for casual games, but completely worthless for tournament play.
Sometimes when we play we just set up random pieces on the board and start from there. Not a puzzle or anything like that, just random pieces. It's a social game, so whatever makes it fun is all that matters.
Ifpatriot, I'm curious to know what you were rated in the first year or two of playing,.