Chess is heavily unfair


That would be heavily unfair to White.
The only true advantage White has is the first-move advantage, and in your case (as for many others) also a psychological one. When it comes to these kinds of topics it's mostly in the mind of a player. This is probably thanks to the first-move advantage which allows White to steer the game more than it allows Black to do so. However with good preparation Black can just as simply find a way towards an initiatory position.
TL;DR: it's mostly in the mind.

Black should start with extra Queen in place of a Pawn to make it fair
An extra queen? White's advantage is literally less than 1/3 of a pawn. Nice idea.

If Black was that much worse than White, there would be 2700-rated players pointing it out; not 1300-rated players.
What you mean is "I suck at playing Black".

Am I supposed to really answer this

Black should start with extra Queen in place of a Pawn to make it fair
That would make it unfair for white smh

Even though I haven't won as many games as black percentage wise, in some ways I prefer playing it.
Sometimes it takes the pressure off, a bit like a tennis player who wins the coin toss and elects the other player to serve first.

It can actually be easier to play black. White starts with aggressive moves to occupy/control space and black has to upset these plans. It is easier to find a plan when your opponent goes first and shows you what his intentions are.

Black should start with extra Queen in place of a Pawn to make it fair
I would never expect a 1369 rating to say that

Daughtry007 wrote:
Black should start with extra Queen in place of a Pawn to make it fair
For this statement, you have been sentenced to 1 week of chess gulag.

Daughtry007 wrote:
Black should start with extra Queen in place of a Pawn to make it fair
For this statement, you have been sentenced to 1 week of chess gulag.
Is that when they force you to play the London System until your brain dribbles out your ears?

White does have a first move advantage but it is very miniscule
About 1/5th of a Pawn.

Daughtry007 wrote:
Black should start with extra Queen in place of a Pawn to make it fair
For this statement, you have been sentenced to 1 week of chess gulag.
Is that when they force you to play the London System until your brain dribbles out your ears?
Yes! And French and similar torturous openings and exercises.

i have often thought that chess is a beautiful game is it massively flawed ? the fact that white is automatic favourite from the very beginning is quite disturbing and sometimes feels hopeless almost. how is this fair?