But yea, to be honest, if I was to start rising very quickly in the ranks "just saying" the sky is the limit simply because I'm a male. Chess skill has nothing to do with it, or else if it did there plainly would be more women in the top ranks than they are, so obviously there is some invisible barrier.
Hate to break it to you, but being old is far more detrimental to becoming GM than being male or female. Most GMs (including women) started playing chess when they were 3-4 years old while their brains were more malleable. If you think only 41 women GMs is low, try looking up the number of people that became GM after 60 (I would be surprised if you could find more than a handful of examples if any). The only example I could find was Larry Kaufman who became GM at 60 in 2008. However he became IM in 1980, so it took him 28 years to go from IM to GM. If all it took to be GM was memorization then way more people would be GM. It is a shame you don't play more games online, how do you expect to improve? I think if you had crossed over 1000 in 6 months most people here would have been impressed.
Even less likely than Andrea Botez becoming one...
Know a little about what you're talking about before you publicly post something. For one Andrea Botez is already a woman FIDE master. Will she reach GM before me? Maybe but not likely simply because I'm a male. I'm not racist, prejudice or anything it's just simple stats.
On a positive note: Even if the GM plan doesn't work out, the path to becoming a standup comedian is wide open.