It's definitely not as bad as it used to be. I think chess.com must be doing a pretty good job.
It used to be that ~2000 was a glass ceiling for rapid here (years ago). These days I see real players maintain 2200 ratings, so I probably don't have to worry about it so much.
... the main problem now is I'm in the slow process of retiring from playing chess So for that reason too I'm not so interested.
What makes you avoid rapid? More cheaters in higher time controls or what?
Cheaters and stallers, yeah. It's probably not as bad as I imagine, but I know they exist and I'd rather not deal with them.
I don't know if "staller" is a common word. I mean people who stop playing when they're losing and let their clock run for 20 minutes.
Well, they're probably not "people" because it's hard for me to imagine an adult doing this. They're probably little kids.
I do get those, but I only play 10|0. If they abandon it's only 1min until they auto resign and I've noticed pretty much every single person I reported for stalling gets punished. It's not a big deal. I do imagine cheating becomes more of an issue above my rating though, but even then it's whatever as I prefer the time control and they do eventually get banned.