openings

so ive been on this website for a bit and everyone talks about them and i see people make awsome openings so i was wondering if i could make one and how to or a really good on i can develop on im 13 so i might not know what you talk about to well 

You're rated 800.

You're playing speed chess.

Openings do not decide your games.

You're losing in 10 moves and less.

Chess Openings Resources for Beginners and Beyond...

https://www.chess.com/blog/RussBell/openings-resources-for-beginners-and-beyond

Good Chess Openings Books For Beginners and Beyond...

https://www.chess.com/blog/RussBell/good-chess-openings-books-for-beginners-and-beyond

https://www.chess.com/blog/RussBell

For white, I think it's pretty standard to move your king's pawn up 2. For black, I like the Russian Defense, the Sicilian Defense, and the French Defense. But the main rule of thumb is to try to control the center of the board, I find it doesn't really matter how you do it.

Your last two sentences contradict each other. Just saying.

I get that it appears that way.  But if you look at the OP's losses, you will see that he lost because of blunders in the opening.  Not because they forgot/mixed up theory. 

That's like blindly memorizing openings, and having no understanding of the positions. 

I know what you meant, was only jesting!

A name from the past!  Where have you been??

I fall in and out of love with chess...hope you’re keeping well in this crazy time.

That i can understand.  I fell out of love with it about a year ago.  Unlike many, I am doing well.  Still have a job to go to.  Im basically a hermit, so not much has changed for me.  Hope youre doing well.