Still feel like a beginner

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Cobra2721
BigFoxy90 wrote:
cogadhtintreach wrote:
BigFoxy90 wrote:
cogadhtintreach wrote:

Because you still are a beginner

@cogadhtintreach

Yea, I know. Games like this affirm that in my mind at least. Horrible. I've been obsessing over this game since last night when I dropped this easy win. Not sure when I'll want to play again honestly. This game took the wind out of my sails for the time being. Played another game last night where I blundered a winning position also. Just unbelievable. Should have had five wins last night and I found a way to mess it up. 😒 Pathetic. Learn or lose. Back to the analysis board.

Yeah you are right, you need to get better

No one's arguing with you, bud.

What? I was just supporting you

BigFoxy90
cogadhtintreach wrote:
BigFoxy90 wrote:
cogadhtintreach wrote:
BigFoxy90 wrote:
cogadhtintreach wrote:

Because you still are a beginner

@cogadhtintreach

Yea, I know. Games like this affirm that in my mind at least. Horrible. I've been obsessing over this game since last night when I dropped this easy win. Not sure when I'll want to play again honestly. This game took the wind out of my sails for the time being. Played another game last night where I blundered a winning position also. Just unbelievable. Should have had five wins last night and I found a way to mess it up. 😒 Pathetic. Learn or lose. Back to the analysis board.

Yeah you are right, you need to get better

No one's arguing with you, bud.

What? I was just supporting you

 

Lol no worries. I was just saying I agree with you that I need improvement albeit in a pessimistic manner but still, I was agreeing with you. So no problems here. All the best, bud. 

BigFoxy90
TheNameofNames wrote:
BigFoxy90 wrote:
cogadhtintreach wrote:
BigFoxy90 wrote:
cogadhtintreach wrote:
BigFoxy90 wrote:
cogadhtintreach wrote:

Because you still are a beginner

@cogadhtintreach

Yea, I know. Games like this affirm that in my mind at least. Horrible. I've been obsessing over this game since last night when I dropped this easy win. Not sure when I'll want to play again honestly. This game took the wind out of my sails for the time being. Played another game last night where I blundered a winning position also. Just unbelievable. Should have had five wins last night and I found a way to mess it up. 😒 Pathetic. Learn or lose. Back to the analysis board.

Yeah you are right, you need to get better

No one's arguing with you, bud.

What? I was just supporting you

 

Lol no worries. I was just saying I agree with you that I need improvement albeit in a pessimistic manner but still, I was agreeing with you. So no problems here. All the best, bud. 

The best player in the world has blundered like that many times, I dont see why you cant just acknowledge it was a bad mistake and move on. You were probably tired or something, sleep deprived etc...

 

@TheNameofNames 

I wish I could use that as an excuse but the truth is I was fully awake and alert and I had a winning position in every game I played last night and I should have won every game I played, especially that one. But unfortunately I did something really dumb and paid the price for it twice. It was a horrid move and I'm not denying that. I'm just saying I feel like my grandmother who doesn't play chess would have seen that coming. And I know that's an exaggeration, but that was so obvious and it should have been the first thing I saw and I will be kicking myself for a long time for not seeing it. Just pathetic way to lose a game. 

TourDeChess7
BigFoxy90 wrote:

Hope yall have a better night than I. I'm done for the evening. Best vibes and good night. 

At least you stopped playing when it happened, it obviously put you on major tilt. I think we've all been there & done that...from bad to worse, playing frustrated and angry on a tilt losing spree.

Free_elo_on_offer

U can play with me if u want, I tend to blunder mate in 1s too so we will be in equal footing

InterdimensionalBlitz

@upcommingGm 

2000 rapid is not good. I was 2000 rapid like a year ago and I thought I was the coolest guy but we still make lots of elementary blunders and lacking positional knowledge

nklristic
BigFoxy90 wrote:

I guess we all blunder mate in one from time to time. But this was honestly pathetic on my part. This game was mine and I blundered the most pathetic, desperate, ugly mate in one. Stupid. Absolutely stupid. AGH! The self loathing is strong after that one. 

Lesson: blunder check every move and  never relax or you'll do something idiotic like this. 

Hope yall have a better night than I. I'm done for the evening. Best vibes and good night. 

When this happens, it is of course devastating, but if you are beginner because of a blunder, is he is well?



One bad game does not define you.

The reason why this happens is because inevitably, on relatively rare occasions you will let your guard down when you feel the game is won. You can minimize those moments, but you can never completely remove them from your play.

I don't even like talking about this because every time I speak about some type of a mistake, I somehow end up making it in the near future, maybe even in the next game. happy.png

nklristic
CalculatedPuzzle wrote:

@upcommingGm 

2000 rapid is not good. I was 2000 rapid like a year ago and I thought I was the coolest guy but we still make lots of elementary blunders and lacking positional knowledge

No rating is good when you are at that rating. happy.png

One will never be completely satisfied with his own game. But if you look objectively 2000 rating is better than 99.9 % amateurs. You can't compare with masters, but compared to most other players, you are Bobby Fischer.

LemonEagle25
Lol my opponent often get too excited like that and blundered a mate in one
GurjiBey

xf6 ? Is there something that i dont see?

Sea_TurtIe

Really no credit to give. He played the game incredibly poorly and did not deserve the win. It wasn't even a tactic that won him the game. Just a moment of brainless incompetence on my part allowing mate in one. He had no other advantage or tactic throughout the game. So really the credit goes to my own idiocy. Even my accuracy at the end of game was still higher. The evaluation had me at +18 before that disgusting mate in one!!!! There is no excuse other than I failed miserably and pathetically to prevent an ugly and embarrassing checkmate. That's on me alone. 

Many people at our level play like dumbasses that should be 900 elo,

it disappears at 1800 elo but most of them play hope chess and hope that you make mistakes as if you are also retardéd like they are

BigFoxy90
Meskhi2005 wrote:

xf6 ? Is there something that i dont see?

@Mekshi2005 

If you're asking why the bishop doesn't take the queen, it's because it can't. It's pinned To The King by the rook. Anyway my opponent found the best move regardless because I'm a moron and blundered a really stupid mate in one.