Paul,
that's a very helpful point about pawn tension, and "To take is a mistake". helps me understand more why the tension remains for so long in some of the GM games I've been studying.
and the many concomitant points about how taking too early can cause you to lose the strength of your position, even if it looks like you will be gaining something in the short term.
very interesting that, in philosophy, a number of philosophers, especially Hegel, for example, thought that a kind of tension in thought, an idea or state of affairs which contains a contradiction is precisely powerful because it contains this contradiction. The contradiction can lead to a new, "higher" state of affairs, if it is allowed to resolve itself, in the way that is "right" for it to do so. that is, in the way that the contradiction itself leads to. there are certainly some disanalogies here between chess and philosophy, but I found the analogies on this point intriguing.
On other the hand, if you wait for the maximum effect, wouldn't your opponent do it instead at an earlier time? Or do you have to make sure through your initiative that that is no option?