how would you regard this situation


Ah yes, the mighty counter-fork. A rare sight.
I guess when you sacrifice material you have to be very sure that you will get paid back for it. Your opponent punished you for being overly aggressive. But at your level it's no shame that you missed Qc6+. It's a great start that you saw the sac for a fork!

Take that lesson and use it the next time someone puts you in a fork, can I get out of this fork somehow? If the fork is on my rook and my bishop, can one of them move to check his king as a sidestep? Or can one of them move creating an attack on his queen? If the bishop for instance is able to move threatning his queen then it doesn't matter that he has a threat on your rook, and when he moves his queen you can safely move your rook and both pieces are now safe from the earlier fork he placed.
Always have to look for those variations, so for instance in your game here, simply moving your queen to d7 before you made the actual attack would've covered his counter-attack, but, it's good that you saw the fork in the first place.
Also, look at the position of your king and queen now after he checked you, if he had a piece covering f6 he could've moved his bishop to f6 right after that check, creating a spear (what's the english word for it? It's called spear in swedish) with your king and queen, a nasty situation, but, I guess you would've moved the king to f8 instead.
This is just another sad lesson in the priority of check. White was able to evade your fork because he could safely move on of the pinned pieces with check, In your case, it was even worse, since White's queen check was also a double attack, picking up your knight.

Thank you Danne for the lengthy/detailed answer, it helped me allot !
Thank you Laskersnephew as well !


didn't quite get that, B1ZMARK...
Well that’s what Qc6+ was. Black gets poked in the eye, and you have to deal with that first before worrying about everything else...
btw, catmaster, in the report - it says i had a missed win, mate in 1 - i don't quite see it
Shouldn't it give the line for said mate in 1? Which game and move was it on?
Just to be clear, a missed win isn't necessarily mate in 1 btw.

btw, i'm studying right now one of the video lessons, and basically the instructor says you gotta put pressure on certain points/pawns, like, by having a threat on the same point/pawn with several pieces. yet, i always found this kind of 'head into the wall"/brute-force attack kinda inelegant/primitive.....do you have something to say on the subject ?