I started playing chess at 7, my Father taught me. He never let me win. I really won my first games once I started playing my friends in school and I had to teach them how to play. There are many different levels of chess play. From beginner, to intermediate, to advanced. Taking this into consideration you should not be discouraged from playing chess online. I find I can lose any game playing online by making even one mistake on the playing field. Take your time in a 30 min game and review each of your opponents' moves as they make them. Ask yourself : "Why did they move there?" "Where will that playing piece be able to move next?" Chess is both a defensive and offensive game. Keep your defense up for as long as necessary, until your offensive has the opportunity to carry through with a series of attacks that will win you the game. My general rules for play are as follows.
1 : Do not move pawns unless necessary. Keeping everything close to home makes it easier later in the game to march your remaining pawns to your opponents' side for a new Queen.
2 : Do not let your opponents' officers hangout on your side of the board. This only will let them attack you later to your determent. Kill any playing piece that tries to cross over to your side of the board.
3 : Knowing when to attack is also very important, so take advantage of any mistakes your opponent may make. Follow through your attacks as long as those attacks will net you the advantage for a win.
4 : Castling is a great move that allows you to move 2 pieces at once, your King and a rook. Just remember that when you castle make sure you move to the side that has officers to help defend your King and his pawns. Note that castling is not always necessary and in fact can lose you a game vs. an advanced chess player, because now your opponent knows which side of the board to focus all their attacks. This choice of when to castle or Not to castle comes with playing experience.
5: En passant (French) for in passing. That move where you can move your pawn behind an attacking pawn. Very useful, but not always needed if you want to use your opponents' pawn as a wall for your own defense. This again is a choice that comes with playing experience.
Hope this helps you <3
Sincerely, Anna
[Site "Chess.com iPhone"]
[Date "05/01/2019 03:17PM"]
[White "chicagodrums (1386)"]
[Black "161107at (1413)"]
1.e4 {29:59} e5 {29:58} 2.Nc3 {29:43} Nf6 {29:53} 3.Nf3 {29:26} d6 {29:25} 4.h3 {28:53} a6 {29:05} 5.d4 {28:06} exd4 {28:14} 6.Qxd4 {27:44} Nc6 {28:11} 7.Qa4 {26:42} Bd7 {27:50} 8.Bg5 {26:08} Ne7 {26:52} 9.Qb3 {25:20} b5 {26:05} 10.Nd5 {23:31} Be6 {25:27} 11.Bxf6 {23:02} Bxd5 {25:14} 12.exd5 {21:55} gxf6 {23:17} 13.Bd3 {20:59} f5 {22:50} 14.O-O {20:18} Bg7 {22:16} 15.Nh4 {19:52} f4 {22:04} 16.Rfe1 {19:10} O-O {21:55} 17.Nf3 {18:58} h6 {21:29} 18.c4 {16:53} b4 {20:31} 19.Qxb4 {16:29} Rb8 {20:28} 20.Qd2 {14:27} Ng6 {19:51} 21.Rab1 {14:10} Be5 {18:12} 22.Nxe5 {14:06} dxe5 {16:51} 23.b3 {13:28} f5 {16:02} 24.Be2 {13:01} Qg5 {15:39} 25.f3 {10:50} Nh4 {15:24} 26.g4 {10:25} Ng6 {14:18} 27.Bd3 {8:57} Qh4 {13:26} 28.Qh2 {7:00} Rf7 {9:06} 29.Bxf5 {5:25} Rxf5 {6:47} 30.gxf5 {5:21} Qg5+ {6:36} 31.Kh1 {5:08} Qxf5 {6:33} 32.Rg1 {5:04} Kh7 {6:25} 33.Rbd1 {4:53} Nh4 {6:09} 34.Rgf1 {4:32} Rg8 {6:03} 35.d6 {4:28} Rg3 {4:03} 36.dxc7 {3:54} Rxh3 {3:48} 37.Rd8 {3:13} Rxh2+ {3:05} 38.Kxh2 {3:07} Qc2+ {2:10} 39.Kh3 {2:49} Qg2+ {2:08} 40.Kxh4 {2:47} Qg3+ {2:06} 41.Kh5 {2:43} Qh3# {1:57} {161107at won by checkmate}