I thank you Jaglavak for your exceedingly accessible and exceedingly reasonable explanations. I will study your every word. I find your comments exceedingly 'trustworthy' and I'm someone who usually finds explanations trashy. Not yours. There's no trash in there, from my point of view. I need to read your language and your comments until I can 'hear' your langauge, your 'voice' and your comments in my ear, interrupting and intervening on my own thoughts as I play, and as I catch myself doing my version of thinking. which may work well in other fields, but does not work well in its current form in chess.
I thank you for your honest and ruthlessly compassionate instruction.
About your first game, i use to do that opening !!!(your chess club mate's opening in that game) I do it combining it like Nimzo-Larssen attack, i love it because i like to attack early(after the opponent's opening),..(and because usually it confuses the opponents, who dont know what to do , so they do mistakes) the goal of that opening is attack the center of the board... i think the most effective way to play against THAT is to control the center before him and put pressure on him advancing center pawns.
In conclusion - i remember when i made this opening against very strong players - sometimes i lost because they started to attack me before i finished developing.
I think you should not place horitzonaly together 2 bishops because its usually weak... better is vertical. And dont be afraid of attacking him when he does THAT OPENING because that opening is slower.
I don't usually develope everything before attacking(u do), because its very predicable,.. sometimes its enough to develope 2 knights to start the attack.
I recomment you to try new things and be more aggressive in the game. In this way u will learn fast and make your own tactics.
Here i post one of my games, good example of how to counter that weird opening (he put me in trouble ...although finally won because he made some mistakes) i hope i helped u:)