the level of play on this site is just far too low, too many hanging pieces.
refer to
chess.com/forum/view/general/proof-that-chomping-on-hanging-pieces-will-get-you-to-2400-blitz
for examples on how often people hang pieces with plenty of time on their clock.
Get out-:
I think you, very well, do. you act like you are complaining from your opponents' simple blunders, as to how this could have happened..
But this is why you are playing blitz/bullet in the first place.
I am not complaining🫠I am just in shock