Aborting a game before your first move should not be a violation!


I feel your perspective OP but I think that playing higher rated opponents is part of the game. If you lose, take it as a learning opportunity.
I gladly play higher rated opponents all the time. I shouldnt have to spoon feed you or repeat myself, so see my example in post 1


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I understand this perspective, there have been games I have wanted to abort after seeing the rating difference or the users profle. But 2 things:
1. You can abort multiple times before you're not allowed anymore.
2. If aborting on move 1 for an unlimited amount of times was allowed it would just cause mayhem, there would be a ton of trolls who would go around wasting everyones time by constantly aborting every game. For someone like me who almost never aborts, I would suddenly have to deal with a lot more people aborting games and then this results in me having to search much longer to get a game.
The current system i think is the best. You have limited abort chances that you can use in a genuinely frustrating situation, but you can't go overboard.

i cant tell you the number of times i have clicked start new game out of salt for losing and then immediately realized that i should just take a break
oohh the tilt... we've all been there

What are you talking about? You can abort a few times without punishment, genius...
Also, you can set the rating of your opponents...
No offense, allowing unlimited abortions is one of the most stupid ideas I have ever heard, for so many reasons I can't even begin to list them...
Now, I am trying to imagine you playing a tournament, right before the match starts you call an arbiter because your opponent is higher rated than you... that'd be fun to watch

Ugh. I don't need any more games like my last 5. So I abort.
What's wrong with that?
What's wrong with that? How about... if... you're not willing to play a game where you might lose then don't play?
Punishing people who abort makes sense, otherwise you'll have a million people like you who abort for stupid reasons (I don't like playing people from that country, I don't like playing against 1.e4, I don't like playing black, etc)
Stupid people like me? Thanks for the insult genius.
Actually, this thread has been people bringing up the extreme cases and the abusers of the system. Maybe that is the reason for the rule I haven't considered, but as far as stupid people like me, I have aborted a handful of times out of thousands of games. And it should be my right to do so. I don't abuse the system and I'm nothing like the extreme examples mentioned by others in this thread.
Yeah, that's a common blind spot for people who complain about rules. They only think how the rule affects them. They don't realize when rules are made that the rulemakers have to think of everyone who will follow them.
And in fact there's no such thing as a perfect set of rules. Every policy has good and bad consequences. When you change rules you have to think about how that balance is changed, not just "boo hoo I want my very specific situation to be better for meeeeee"
But I know this site is full of kids, so you're first reaction was correct i.e. I'm being rude for expecting too much.

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Well, actually it gets annoying having to wait 10-30 seconds every time you want to play if people are aborting like maniacs
And it's too much effort coding all of those specifics... just don't be a lil bih and play the game, or abort a bunch of them and lose 7 rating points when the system turns abortion into a resignation... it's an online blitz/rapid rating, it's not gonna kill you

This is the absolute strongest argument for the current status quo
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Well, actually it gets annoying having to wait 10-30 seconds every time you want to play if people are aborting like maniacs
And it's too much effort coding all of those specifics... just don't be a lil bih and play the game, or abort a bunch of them and lose 7 rating points when the system turns abortion into a resignation... it's an online blitz/rapid rating, it's not gonna kill you
Actually it wouldn't be too hard..... I could probably code it within a few lines in python. Plus, chess.com has professional coders, not the people who joined wee woo coding camp for a week.
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Well, actually it gets annoying having to wait 10-30 seconds every time you want to play if people are aborting like maniacs
And it's too much effort coding all of those specifics... just don't be a lil bih and play the game, or abort a bunch of them and lose 7 rating points when the system turns abortion into a resignation... it's an online blitz/rapid rating, it's not gonna kill you
Actually it wouldn't be too hard..... I could probably code it within a few lines in python. Plus, chess.com has professional coders, not the people who joined wee woo coding camp for a week.
I do agree with you though that ppl shouldn't be able to abort whenever they want.

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Well, actually it gets annoying having to wait 10-30 seconds every time you want to play if people are aborting like maniacs
And it's too much effort coding all of those specifics... just don't be a lil bih and play the game, or abort a bunch of them and lose 7 rating points when the system turns abortion into a resignation... it's an online blitz/rapid rating, it's not gonna kill you
Actually it wouldn't be too hard..... I could probably code it within a few lines in python. Plus, chess.com has professional coders, not the people who joined wee woo coding camp for a week.
Lol wee woo coding camp that was funny
I never said it was hard, I said it was too much effort.
Anything that's not worth doing is too much effort, no matter how easy it is
I say about the matter that you just shouldn't complain about who you face, and that you should just deal with it since I have many times in which I face people who are higher rated than you, that's fine, your opponent is the one actually trembling since losing to the higher rated person will be "meh whatever", but losing against a lower rated person, that's gonna be stressful. My point is, don't care about who you face, maybe you can even get a sweet victory, so just forget about it.

Not to mention how pathetic it is a stance, to yell aloud "I got beaten by a regular opponent, now give me a dwarf so I can beat them up in turn".
That was the best thing I've read today, I'm getting it tattooed on my chest

Not to mention how pathetic it is a stance, to yell aloud "I got beaten by a regular opponent, now give me a dwarf so I can beat them up in turn".
My formula for success: If you lose to a ten-year-old, then play a nine-year-old next time.

I mean, some dude is at 1600, then plays at 1800 against you, how come? Well, one just pays more attention when facing a stronger opponent, and the points we lose, don't we lose most of them against "weaker" players we neglected to take seriously enough? Of course it is so.
Indeed there are many factors... I think that 200-ish rating points difference for a quick game is essentially two people at the same level
I mean first of all it's blitz (sometimes maybe rapid?)
Second of all most of us we are playing games, not matches
Third of all that, you could fall for some opening prep
Fourth, style of play definitely plays a role, certain people do better against a specific style
fifth, person could be having a bad day, tilted, drunk, inspired, etc..
Ugh. I don't need any more games like my last 5. So I abort.
What's wrong with that?
What's wrong with that? How about... if... you're not willing to play a game where you might lose then don't play?
Punishing people who abort makes sense, otherwise you'll have a million people like you who abort for stupid reasons (I don't like playing people from that country, I don't like playing against 1.e4, I don't like playing black, etc)
Stupid people like me? Thanks for the insult genius.
Actually, this thread has been people bringing up the extreme cases and the abusers of the system. Maybe that is the reason for the rule I haven't considered, but as far as stupid people like me, I have aborted a handful of times out of thousands of games. And it should be my right to do so. I don't abuse the system and I'm nothing like the extreme examples mentioned by others in this thread.