People who "pooh-pooh" Chess usually do not have the faintest concept of the immensity of the game.
Ask her if she is willing to guess how many possible positions there are after only 7 moves (4 for WHITE + 3 for BLACK) The answer in a round number is 3.2 BILLION+.
If the first question is too tough for her since it asks for a specific number, let her try a question with a simple yes or no answer, to wit. Are there more total particles in the entire universe than there are total possible Chess positions?
Answer: NO...there are, in fact MORE total Chess positions (approx. 2 times 10 to the 46th power) than there are total particles (protons, neutrons) in the entire universe (approx. 10 to the 80th power).
Can she wrap her head around that?
Where did you get those numbers from?
Anyway at the most fundamental level chess is a game. It may mean more or less to some people but we are all free to choose our own values.
ticKtok
"...there are, in fact MORE total Chess positions (approx. 2 times 10 to the 46th power) than there are total particles (protons, neutrons) in the entire universe (approx. 10 to the 80th power)."
GREAT comeback!!!