Advice on how *NOT* to get nervous?

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I am one game away from 2400 blitz and Im so nervous its actually insane. My heart rate has to be higher than 200🙏 . Any idea how I can focus on the game and forget the stakes?

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I played a 2600 opponent in a recent game

I resigned in 3rd move for no reason due to panicking

I hope that helps

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Take a break, slow down, and relax. Walk outside if you need to, and then go ahead and play. You have the momentum, keep it.

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theeldest1 wrote:

Take a break, slow down, and relax. Walk outside if you need to, and then go ahead and play. You have the momentum, keep it.

Playing it at midnight is probably a bad idea. I will wake up tmrw make some coffee, solve some homework, get mentally prepared and hopefully I get the job done. Thank you for the advice🙏

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Broken-lonely-soul wrote:

I played a 2600 opponent in a recent game

I resigned in 3rd move for no reason due to panicking

I hope that helps

Well it's braindead logic but it helped ig😂😂

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GMlightining2200 wrote:

I am one game away from 2400 blitz and Im so nervous its actually insane. My heart rate has to be higher than 200🙏 . Any idea how I can focus on the game and forget the stakes?

I almost puke if playing anyone over 1200 so yeah ... what helped me was some good breathing exercises. Tried many books and techniques and best technique is book:

Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art Author is Nestor

IIRC, I read someplace that even Masters suffer same thing. Knowing they are scared would help ME (not that I'd ever be in THAT position). Another technique I learned from years ago, picture them in their underwear or with food between their teeth.

Good luck to you - you seem so very nice.

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DavidWills99 wrote:
GMlightining2200 wrote:

I am one game away from 2400 blitz and Im so nervous its actually insane. My heart rate has to be higher than 200🙏 . Any idea how I can focus on the game and forget the stakes?

Good luck to you - you seen so very nice.

Thank you very much. Thats so kind of you, and thank you for the advice

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I find scotch helps me immensely when i play.

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LOL, maybe. But @GMlightining2200 is like 10 years old.

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DavidWills99 wrote:

LOL, maybe. But @GMlightining2200 is like 10 years old.

Im 15🫠. 10 is craaazy

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GMlightining2200 wrote:

I am one game away from 2400 blitz and Im so nervous its actually insane. My heart rate has to be higher than 200🙏 . Any idea how I can focus on the game and forget the stakes?

Your nerves will go down when you have more experience, there’s nothing too much you can do to stop your nerves 100%

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IDUNNOWHY4 wrote:

I find scotch helps me immensely when i play.

When you first said Scotch, I thought you meant as in the opening Scotch Game which is my prime opening. So funny!

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zeeeenith wrote:
GMlightining2200 wrote:

I am one game away from 2400 blitz and Im so nervous its actually insane. My heart rate has to be higher than 200🙏 . Any idea how I can focus on the game and forget the stakes?

Your nerves will go down when you have more experience, there’s nothing too much you can do to stop your nerves 100%

Ofc but I wanna relax atleast abit. Nervousness never leads to good chess

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GMlightining2200 wrote:
zeeeenith wrote:
GMlightining2200 wrote:

I am one game away from 2400 blitz and Im so nervous its actually insane. My heart rate has to be higher than 200🙏 . Any idea how I can focus on the game and forget the stakes?

Your nerves will go down when you have more experience, there’s nothing too much you can do to stop your nerves 100%

Ofc but I wanna relax atleast abit. Nervousness never leads to good chess

It depends on the person how they relax

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Play tomorrow, in the morning. Warmup before with a puzzle rush. Think you are far from 2400.
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GMlightining2200 wrote:
DavidWills99 wrote:

LOL, maybe. But @GMlightining2200 is like 10 years old.

Im 15🫠. 10 is craaazy

Sorry for the error. I must have misread your Home Page!

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Take deep breaths. Turn your game face on. But last but not least... Play your heart out

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Finalissima2026 wrote:

Take deep breaths. Turn your game face on. But last but not least... Play your heart out

Is this a general zod refrence?

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Fet wrote:
Play tomorrow, in the morning. Warmup before with a puzzle rush. Think you are far from 2400.

I tried doing this when I was xx92 and then lost

I think it's better to do it when you're on a streak already

Hopefully it works though

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chesssblackbelt wrote:
Fet wrote:
Play tomorrow, in the morning. Warmup before with a puzzle rush. Think you are far from 2400.

I tried doing this when I was xx92 and then lost

I think it's better to do it when you're on a streak already

Hopefully it works though

Its kinda late for that right now. Playing at 12 30 AM can't end well