Sorry, Elubas, but I think you may have misunderstood me. I said that Style for Chess by comparison is more like personality for people. While on the other hand, just having a preference in Chess is more like making a quick uninformed decision in life.
I don't mean that you have to have an aggressive personality to have aggressive style. This is way off the mark of what I'm going for.
Let's look at it ANOTHER way.
When you are a baby, what kind of personality do you have? As well, when you first begin Chess, what kind of style do you have?
Nothing at this point is for certain. You can only tell what is liked, wanted, or perfered at that time.
Now, as you get older and become kid, your preferences change. Same goes for Chess. As you learn more and gain more experience, your preferences in what style you may be going for will change as well.
Only until you've reached a nice adult age where you've learned enough and experienced enough will you know not only what you want, but who exactly you are in this world. Again, similar to Chess whereas you only begin to possess your own style when you've learned and experienced enough of it to not even have to think about what you want.
Okay, so just to make things a bit more clear, remember, it's about YOUR own specific style.
Sure there are the usual vaguely characterized styles like aggressive and deffensive, but Syntax, I believe was referring to YOUR own personnal style. Not just a style you are using at the time. That would make it more a preference.
Your own style is not a choice. It's who you've become in the world of Chess throughout the time you've been here.
Look, I like to play both sides of the story, though I prefer aggresive playing style. I play defensive unless I am controling the center. I think that it really depends on the situation that you are in to decide what style you use. I also like to attack when they are controling the center, so as to get them out of there ASAP. So, I guess I would like to play aggresive more.