An unpleasant comment!

What is the difference between insulting your opponent as you play thejohn...and the insults you are hurtling about here?
Mind your own business
did you ask your opponent why he/she said "YOU SUCK"
maybe he wanted to help you get better if only you had just asked.
Yes it seems like the backlash against ''kaynight'' speaks loud. People in general don`t tolarate your comments. So would you toughen up when tradgety hit you?

Found this useful link from David.
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#31 day ago
The FAQ has some great tips for dealing with abuse:https://support.chess.com/customer/en/portal/articles/1444877-what-should-i-do-if-another-member-is-rude-or-abusive
That includes reporting them, although the FAQ neglects to mention the newest and simplest way to do so via Help --> Report Abuse

FInally, a sensible response.
here is something to cheer up the OP:
chess players
1. Alexandra Kosteniuk
Alexandra Kosteniuk is a Russian chess grandmaster (that’s right, Grandmaster, bitches!) who won the 2008 World Women’s Championship title in Nalchik, Russia. Alexandra has been in the finals of 2001 Championships also at the age of just 17, but she lost on that occasion. She was the European champion in 2004 and the Chess960 (Fischer Random) world champion in 2006 which she defended this year also. Kosteniuk also won the 2005 Russian Women’s Championship which were held in Samara.
Besides chess, Alexandra also hosts a popular podcast Chess is Cool, which keeps its listeners up to date with all the chess events. In her personal life, she is married to Diego Garces of Switzerland and has a daughter. Which is unfortunate, if you’ve ever seen her whoop some ass on the chess board all while wearing a sexy loud dress.
2. Sanja Dedijer
Dedijer hails from Bosnia-Herzegovina and is only 24 years old. Therefore, she has very little biographical information (I don’t believe she has won any titles) other than the fact that she is damn hot. Look at the concentration.
3. Regina Pokorna
Vladislav Tkachiev, talking about beauty in chess, called the 27-year-old Slovakian beauty Pokorno “a child-woman, an eternal girl”. It’s probably those incredible blue eyes, though you can never ignore her beautiful games and 2400+ rating. (Apparently that’s pretty darn good in pro chess… I wouldn’t know).
4. Valquira Rocha
I can’t find much info on Valquiria, except that she hails from Angola, she plays professional chess, and she is daaaaaamn hawt! A traditional Angolese expression for “hot.”
5. Anna Sharevich
Anna a Belarusian chessmaster, having achieved the required norms for the title Woman Grandmaster in 2006. She won the Ladies’ Belarusian Chess Championship in 2002, 2005 and 2007 and played for Belarus in the Woman’s Chess Olympiad of 2002 to 2008 (four times). She’s smart, blonde, sultry, and can kick your sub-mental ass!
6. Arianne Caoili
Arianne Caoili began playing chess at the age of six. At one point during 2002, she achieved a FIDE rating in excess of 2300, but this has been in decline since she scaled down her chess activities to concentrate on her studies, as she is still only 23! Nevertheless, she remains one of Australia’s leading women players and played top board for the national team at the Dresden Olympiad in 2008.
She’s has her share of scandals (for a chess player), though! In June 2006 it was reported that the British Granmaster Danny Gormally had thrown a punch at Armenian Grandmaster Levon Aronian (who was at the time the number three on the FIDE world ranking) in a Turin nightclub during the chess Olympiad. Gormally apparently became jealous when he saw Aronian dancing with Caoili. In 09, Aronian and Caoili were reported to be in a relationship…. Sorry Danny.
Caoili has also been on Dancing With The Stars, so she’s got that goin’ for her, too… which is nice.
7. Eva Repkova
Eva is a Slovakian-born chessmaster who once had a relationship with fellow chess champion Vladimir Kramnik. Eva, as you can see is incredibly hot. And she’s recently divorced from a Lebanese businessman, so all you chess fanboys still have a shot!… No, not really. It’s nice to dream, though.

"my life was beginning to take on some meaning once more."
The only proof you need to realize that this thread is just another sad troll job.

So starting with an unpleasant comment you achieved a succesful and entertaining thread.
The thank goes to your opponent who lost control for a second.

I did say that I would not enter further comments but having read some of the postings I felt one last comment would not hurt. I have no previous experience of forums and I now realize that even though I was feeling a bit down in the dumps, I should not have have opened my thoughts. I surely have a lot to learn.
I will not go into detail because it would serve no purpose; suffice it to say that for the past 18 months my existence has revolved around a daily trip to the Supermarket and daytime TV. Nothing wrong with that I hear you say; well yes, but it sure is a lonely and boring existence. Then I discovered Chess.com. I got very into it and despite those out there who I guess will always seek hidden meanings, it literally did give me a new lease of life. I am guessing that the "doubting Thomas's" out there are comparatively young and leading full lives and that is how it should be. But unless you are stricken by some terminal illness, or are involved in a fatal accident; (which I do not wish on any of you) you will probably grow old.
And let me tell you; old age is no picnic. One of my aged friends said that he knew old age had set in when his back went out more than he did. George Burns put it another way. He said that the first sign of old age is when you forget to pull your zipper up; the second sign is when, you forget to pull it down. Personally I consider it a red-letter day when I remember what it is that I was looking for.

I did say that I would not enter further comments but having read some of the postings I felt one last comment would not hurt. I have no previous experience of forums and I now realize that even though I was feeling a bit down in the dumps, I should not have have opened my thoughts. I surely have a lot to learn.
I will not go into detail because it would serve no purpose; suffice it to say that for the past 18 months my existence has revolved around a daily trip to the Supermarket and daytime TV. Nothing wrong with that I hear you say; well yes, but it sure is a lonely and boring existence. Then I discovered Chess.com. I got very into it and despite those out there who I guess will always seek hidden meanings, it literally did give me a new lease of life. I am guessing that the "doubting Thomas's" out there are comparatively young and leading full lives and that is how it should be. But unless you are stricken by some terminal illness, or are involved in a fatal accident; (which I do not wish on any of you) you will probably grow old.
And let me tell you; old age is no picnic. One of my aged friends said that he knew old age had set in when his back went out more than he did. George Burns put it another way. He said that the first sign of old age is when you forget to pull your zipper up; the second sign is when, you forget to pull it down. Personally I consider it a red-letter day when I remember what it is that I was looking for.
Cool, and very true. I think my Grandmother believes old age comes when your any of your senses start to fail.
What is the difference between insulting your opponent as you play thejohn...and the insults you are hurtling about here?
Pointing out an error of hypocrisy doesn't make your comment "Lastly, you are old enough to deal with this without broadcasting publicly" any less condescending and mean spirited.