Well when you been playing for a year and your Grand Mom beats you in her very first game and the 9 games after that and replies how hard can this game. Later that week she gets all reference need to start her track to be a GM. You either at this point quit playing or have to beat her to being a GM to save face!
So it is not can i become a GM i have to be a GM - "Bobby"
What IM Bobbylow said contained a lot of wisdom.
Not really, he just stated what most OTB players know to be obvious truths.