Sometimes you don’t need to castle...
Castling does not protect my king, it traps my king.

Perhaps it will change if I get better, but castling seems to put me at an offensive disadvantage.

I agree with the op. If you're an NM (ninja master), you don't wanna box the big boy in. He's gotta come out shouting and slicing.
I guess I need to learn more because right now I hate castling. Maybe I am too much of a novice, but castling seems like a stall tactic.
If you're a weak player, a good way to remain weak is to ignore the advice of strong players.
I am not ignoring the advice of stronger players. I am trying to understand.

I am not ignoring the advice of stronger players. I am trying to understand.
That puts you ahead of the OP, who simply decided to stop castling.
I am not ignoring the advice of stronger players. I am trying to understand.
That puts you ahead of the OP, who simply decided to stop castling.
Perhaps it will change if I get better, but castling seems to put me at an offensive disadvantage.