cheaters
Hello @biggsev you can find information on how to report in the article below:
https://support.chess.com/en/articles/8562517-how-do-i-report-someone
Your opponents can't impact your clocks or connection. What you're describing is being disconnected from the live server.
https://support.chess.com/en/articles/8584209-how-do-i-fix-my-disconnect-lag-issues
The second thing was either lag compensation, small disconnects, or increment
https://support.chess.com/article/423-why-did-the-clock-times-suddenly-change-the-clocks-seem-broken
The site tried a verification program before. It was well received and some of those accounts got closed for fair play violations.
However, the perception of cheating levels is orders of magnitude more than the actual amount.
https://support.chess.com/article/648-what-do-i-need-to-know-about-fair-play-on-chess-com
https://www.chess.com/article/view/online-chess-cheating
https://www.chess.com/article/view/chesscom-update-december-2024?alert=content#FairPlay
The site closed more than 74,000 accounts in September for fair play violations and has a full team of staff working on reports along with some automated systems for detection.
https://www.chess.com/article/view/fair-play
That said, discussions of cheating, potential cheating, or cheat detection are not allowed in the general forums. If you want to discuss join the following club
https://www.chess.com/club/cheating-forum