man this is ridiculous I was winning and my opponent didn't move for over 5 min and I was disconnected and couldn't log back in no matter what I tried
It just sounds like a regular connection issue. Your opponent can't impact your connection. The clients don't communicate directly with each other so only the site has your IP.
https://support.chess.com/customer/en/portal/articles/1444918-my-internet-connection-is-fine---why-am-i-getting-disconnects-
If you are going to try to say he cheated and that is why you got disconnected...I'm just going to shake my head and walk away.
man this is ridiculous I was winning and my opponent didn't move for over 5 min and I was disconnected and couldn't log back in no matter what I tried