not only chess.com, the game itself.
Chess.com: good mixture of nice people, mean people

All your parents had sex? Wow that must have been some party? How many are you here?
With me it's currently over 10 million. And if I'm lucky it'll be some more by the end of this century.

The fundamental tension in human civilization is between our animal instincts and our intelligence. To get a hearty feeling of success in life or in chess depends on succeeding as an animal, on getting the win. To survive as a community or as a species, we have to communicate intelligently and learn to live for mutual benefit.
Thoughts?