I find the closed Ruy Lopez to be excellent for white.
closed ruy? is it bad?
As far as I know it's one of the most respectable openings out there... I can't imagine who would have said it's bad.
well I specifically was told that the closed ruy is not the best route for black. Does this answer my question? Because what your saying is that I should learn it better? Even if that route contradicts my style.
Even if that route contradicts my style.
You cannot have a style until you learn a great deal about the game.
Even if that route contradicts my style.
You cannot have a style until you learn a great deal about the game.
any suggestions for alternatives?
Lets see...
Before the ruy: philidor, petroff,
After the ruy: cozio, schliemann (and deferred), berlin, steinitz (and deferred), open defense
averbakh, marshall
And the closed ruy isn't even really an opening all by itself, it's more of a starting point. Within it you have
chigorin, breyer, zaitsev, smyslov
And probably 2 or 3 dozen others I haven't mentioned depending on what white and black do at each turn.
There are so many because it's been an opening played from world champion down to amateur for the last 100 years... so again... I can't imagine who said it was not good.
any suggestions for alternatives?
Lets see...
Before the ruy: philidor, petroff,
After the ruy: cozio, schliemann (and deferred), berlin, steinitz (and deferred), open defense
averbakh, marshall
And the closed ruy isn't even really an opening all by itself, it's more of a starting point. Within it you have
chigorin, breyer, zaitsev, smyslov
And probably 2 or 3 dozen others I haven't mentioned depending on what white and black do at each turn.
There are so many because it's been an opening played from world champion down to amateur for the last 100 years... so again... I can't imagine who said it was not good.
I imagine only pros play such openings well.
Players like you and me can win tons of games if only we learn all the basics :)
And partly I mean super-basics... like tempo and space 
I thought I heard somewhere that the closed ruy Lopez was actually not that great. Is this true and if so what is better to play for black?
The #1 rated player in the world still plays it.
http://www.365chess.com/search_result.php?wlname=Carlsen&wname=&open=30&blname=&bname=&eco=&yeari=&yeare=&sply=1&ply=&res=&submit_search=1
I thought I heard somewhere that the closed ruy Lopez was actually not that great. Is this true and if so what is better to play for black?