… If I thought one side in a position might be able to force a win but I just couldn’t calculate it out to the end would I rate the position as "="? Probably not. I'd probably rate the side I suspected of having a win as having an advantage. ...
Again, I think that is a departure from the usual usage. "+-" and "-+" have been used for a "decisive" advantage without any regard (as far as I can tell) to whether or not calculation-verification is possible. Other notations are used for advantages that are not perceived as "decisive".
… I'd say the key distinction between "drawn" on the one hand and "even" or "equal" on the other is that the former reflects an assessment based (usually) on calculation and the latter two an assessment based on intuition. But otherwise they refer to the same thing. ...
I think that is a huge departure from the usual practice. One often sees the advice to be content to play the opening seeking nothing more than a playable middlegame - the whole idea being to be content to achieve an equal position where there is still a very real potential for one side to go wrong. A position seems to me to be routinely referred to as drawn if there is perceived to be little chance for an obscure forced win and little chance for one side to go wrong while playing with moderate competence. For example, one would say that the vast majority of king and two knight against king positions are drawn. The vast majority of evaluations (of any kind) seem to me to be based on intuition. For most of chess history, hasn't something as simple as queen and king against queen and king been beyond the powers of calculation?