skill issue
DONE WITH ONLINE CHESS (RANT)

Well, the last of my two cents... if your plan is/was to become a master, so others might pay you to teach them, my understanding is that you'll likely need years of study and practice, not months. Good luck.

I can see how your metaphor can relate to my situation but I never said I wanted to become a master or a pro... I said i wanted to be at least 200-400 so I can enter a chess club without fully getting my butt handed to me by others and have more knowledge of the game before I get into a club with say people who are typically 400-1000 ELO.... my plan would be after about 2-3 years of being in a club, expand out to minor tournaments here and there locally around me. I don't want to become the next chess prodigy; I just want something that could possibly make me a side income if I ever chose to do so...


Thank you Clockwork and you are right, this is the best thing i could do and now that you say that, do you think I would be better off (theoretically) just dominating the lower class tournaments until say I earn enough to maybe save up to get out and get a kickstart to my life? Chess is really my only hope besides getting a real job and I already cut grass around my neighborhood but that isn't really pulling in enough for me to be satisfied necessarily... I really do need to take a breather and step back from chess and come back when I am better mentally...

You could also donate blood or rent out your backyard for dog parties.
LMAO thats wild but I hate needles and drawing blood... so that is a definite no

I took a look at a bunch of your games. You aren't losing because of your opponents. You are losing because you are playing badly. Even when not confronted with the wayward queen attack, many of the games have you sacrificing pieces that don't pay off. You blunder. You miss opportunities to capture free pieces.
A big part of chess is controlling your emotions. Without being in a good headspace, you will not be able to improve. That goes for online and OTB. You can't play anger chess. If you feel yourself starting to tilt, step away, take a walk. Limit yourself to a handful of games per day. If you lose 3 in a row, stop for the day.
Also, here is the defense to the wayward queen attack. You just have to remember 3 or 4 moves. And at that point it's an easy win. Basically free elo for the taking.

Dealing with gambits is part of chess, you are seeing the wayward queen attack because at your level that is the only 'trick' they know. If you get better you'll run into gambits that are actually good.
You should be happy they are playing that against you. It makes it easier to defeat them. If you don't know how to refute that attack I suggest watching a youtube video from a good master player to learn from.
I also suggest if you wish to improve your chess playing, to watch one of the very good 'speedruns' from Naroditsky or Rosen or other master players that explain what they are doing and WHY they are doing it. Not the gimmicky "I can get 2000 elo in a day" ones but the ones where they are educating their viewers. I am a 1500 Rapid player and still learn a lot from those videos.
Lastly. If you are not having any fun, then don't play. It is a game. You are not trying to become a Grandmaster. You are not trying to make a living off the game, so relax and either have fun and play, relax and play or relax and don't play.
I hope this helps.

I know everyone said this but I am just saying I am new and I am enjoying it a lot! Maybe I got 10 losses in a row but who cares? It's not like if you get so many losses you are gonna get kicked out of chess.
Chess is a game of patience, strategy and mental ability. Whether online or over the board it can be fun. But if your online experience is bad, I suggest participating in tournaments near to you and make a fide rating. That way to can officially play chess otb, but remember you have to practice a lot.

I know everyone said this but I am just saying I am new and I am enjoying it a lot! Maybe I got 10 losses in a row but who cares? It's not like if you get so many losses you are gonna get kicked out of chess.
Chess is a game of patience, strategy and mental ability. Whether online or over the board it can be fun. But if your online experience is bad, I suggest participating in tournaments near to you and make a fide rating. That way to can officially play chess otb, but remember you have to practice a lot.
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