I dont care who you are or what your rating is, if you dont accept and play challenges from any and all people then you havent truly earned your rating!! That means if you are rated 1737 and you don't accept and play a challenge or challenges from people 200 points or more below you then you are not truly a 1737! The whole idea of having a rating is to show where you sit accurately on a scale of ALL chess players in the entire world not who you choose to play. Now i know your scared to lose 14 or 15 points if you lose but if you are scared to lose a game in the first place then you need to get better plain and simple. And i also know most of you out there who decline challenges from extremely lower people dont want to play them because they make severely stupid openning moves and its very frustrating but if you cant defeat that then you are not a true "good" chess player. Furthermore, my "True" rating in Bullet is 1300 and Blitz is 1311 so dont think this is coming from someone who's rating is 500. Man up or Woman up and play Chess! Stop being scared chess players and play! If you went to a tournament right now and someone was matched against you with no rating or title and in all realness would only be 900 or something you couldnt just choose not to play them you would have to and would probably take a loss because you are not truly as high as you purport yourself to be. There are a whole lot of people out there rated 100-300 points higher then they really should be!
You sound upset because higher rated players won't play you.
Playing higher rated players should make your rating more accurate, not less. I generally don't play rated games against players 200 points below me because it takes too long to gain points at 2-3 points per game. But I would gladly enter into a cash prize tournament where all of my opponents are rated 200 points below me!
I am very mad. I had 7 straight games aborted by players who in none of the cases were rated more than 300 points above me and it made me start this topic. I get so mad because if they are so much better than me then they should win. And i only play bullet anyway so thats 2 minutes max that it would take for us to play a game anyway. And my best wins for Bullet and Blitz are over 1900 so its not like i couldnt take someone who is 1500 or 1600 and really and truly my best win in blitz is 2015 but we played an unrated game so come on man PLAY CHESS.
Bullet and Blitz hardly count (esp. unrated). You can't say you beat someone rated [high number] until you beat them at a long, relaxed game. I myself have beat a 2300 at a short game unrated, but I accredit it to the quickness (increasing blunders), not my skill.
I would much rather play someone better than me so I actually learn and get better, although I never would turn down a challenge (unless I really don't have time to play).


...because some of like to play unrated and some like to play rated: