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Avatar of buc_fan33
How do you all overcome frustrations in this game? I'm seriously ready to give up on chess. I feel like I'm not making any progress. I try to follow all the "rules." Control the center. Don't bring the queen out too early. Bring all your pieces out. Avoid unnecessary pawn moves. Don't move a piece more than once in the opening, yada, yada, yada. I do this every game, my opponents seemingly do not, and I still wind up losing. It's like I make some stupid mistake every single game. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I don't want this to sound like I'm looking for a pity party...I really want some help.
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Stop playing blitz. Do not play a single blitz game until your total number of rapid games equals your total blitz. This means playing 173 rapid games. Play 30\0. After each game is completed, review it. If you lost, figure out why. If you won, look for ways you could've won more efficiently like a faster checkmate or missed tactics. Use an engine to help you see things if necessary. Continue following opening principles and study pawn structures. Different pawn structures have different pawn breaks and involve different plans. Understanding this is the root of strategy and it will help you formulate a plan. Do these things and 30-60 minutes of tactics puzzles everyday and you will see improvement.

Avatar of durgesh30

msg me ill see if i can help

Avatar of ATJ1968

Playing the endgame accurately is the key.

Avatar of durgesh30

it is very imp ..but there is no such thing as key according to me...overall game knowledge,thought process and experience are needed

Avatar of web14

stop playing BLITZ .  play games having long time controls .

i am willing to discuss with you about finding your weak points and working with you to improve game ...message me if you are willing .

Avatar of kkrrish1990

play rapid games more... I think it will help you.... I am not a good player but I play more rapid games...

Avatar of web14

atleast i am willing to help ,kaynight ! i know i am not a good chess player but i do have the heart to help others and not post something silly for comments .. 

Avatar of ANOK1

good opening principles , are you lacking a cohesive plan midgame ?

the moving to longer time limits sounds a good idea

Avatar of neverherebefore

no fool can play chess and only fools do

Avatar of RussBell

Playing longer time controls is good advice.  Speed chess is not conducive to improving your (or anyone else's) game.  Mastering the fundamentals, and playing longer time controls (so you can think about what you are doing) is the path to improvement.

You might also check this out - it is an excellent book....

"Why You Lose at Chess" by Fred Reinfeld....

https://www.amazon.com/Lose-Chess-Fred-Reinfeld-Classics/dp/1941270263/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1480249173&sr=1-1&keywords=why+you+lose+at+chess

More good chess books for those who have not yet added "Master" to their chess title....study, learn, master the fundamentals....

https://www.chess.com/forum/view/chess-equipment/good-chess-books-for-beginners-and-beyond

Avatar of whatadisaster

You should play more bullet chess if you are making lots of mistakes.  Then your opponent has more chance to make mistakes too, evening things up for you.

Avatar of kindaspongey

Possibly helpful:

Simple Attacking Plans by Fred Wilson (2012)

https://web.archive.org/web/20140708090402/http://www.chesscafe.com/text/review874.pdf

https://www.newinchess.com/Shop/Images/Pdfs/7192.pdf

Logical Chess: Move by Move by Irving Chernev (1957)

https://web.archive.org/web/20140708104437/http://www.chesscafe.com/text/logichess.pdf

The Most Instructive Games of Chess Ever Played by Irving Chernev (1965)

https://chessbookreviews.wordpress.com/tag/most-instructive-games-of-chess-ever-played/

Winning Chess by Irving Chernev and Fred Reinfeld (1949)

https://web.archive.org/web/20140708093415/http://www.chesscafe.com/text/review919.pdf

Discovering Chess Openings by GM John Emms (2006)

https://web.archive.org/web/20140627114655/http://www.chesscafe.com/text/hansen91.pdf

Openings for Amateurs by Pete Tamburro (2014)

http://kenilworthian.blogspot.com/2014/05/review-of-pete-tamburros-openings-for.html

Chess Endgames for Kids by Karsten Müller (2015)

https://chessbookreviews.wordpress.com/tag/chess-endgames-for-kids/

http://www.gambitbooks.com/pdfs/Chess_Endgames_for_Kids.pdf

A Guide to Chess Improvement by Dan Heisman (2010)

https://web.archive.org/web/20140708105628/http://www.chesscafe.com/text/review781.pdf

Avatar of Candidate35
First: no more speed chess. To improve you have to actively think, calculate, and learn to evaluate positions which you can't do but on a very shallow level in speed chess. I actually would encourage you to play daily chess games here, a perfect setting for all the above mentioned.

Second: You play chess, but do you study chess? If you don't then start immediately! You can look up things online, much of it free, solve tactical puzzles, get a few good books to build a solid foundation of chess knowledge, and some even hire a coach to assist in learning! You will improve much more quickly studying chess than just through playing. Especially if all you do is speed chess.

Three: Do you have stronger players review your games? If not, do it! There is a forum on Chess.com dedicated for this. Use it! Get feedback and insights from others on what you did right or wrong, correct ways to evaluate positions and so forth.


Take action, be consistent, get results. And have fun!