Not about crying.... it is about being able to take
and if needed take them down without breaking any of chess.com rules.
I do both and that is when they stop trying so hard. They wanted to dance and we danced then i put them to rest with a smile. Then i pick them up so i can do it all over again. lol.
Just get tough skin as this will not be the first and last time it happens here. Just leave out any private info on yourself so they can not get close to your heart with insults and you will fine.
I'm not bothered by personal stuff. I'm not a little kid that cries every time I see a troll. I am troll's daddy. Nobody can hurt troll's daddy. I am talking rules lol. Thanks Xyzez.(interesting name btw)