how to combat salty players saying mean thing to you (serious) (messed up in terms of word usage)

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Puppernes

woohooo!

Puppernes
ghost_of_pushwood wrote:
batgirl wrote:

I'm not sure how much sting there actually can be in a comment given by some random stranger with anger issues or an inferiority complex...  

 

Everybody's got their own way of putting people down...

Yeah...-_-.....in bad ways.....! 

Puppernes

i am just wondering...why do people have to be mean....to other people....they don't have to be mean.....do u think they got it from other people and since it hurt them they want other people to feel tthe same way because its not fair to them?

MammalBrain

Yes NobleGopher I think sometimes those who have have been stung take it out on others later. In any case it's their own insecurity getting the better of them. 

Puppernes

YES

Puppernes
2sugarspleasebono wrote:
IMBacon wrote:
NobleGopher wrote:

I have had someone call me names and tell me to just give up because i am bad at chess anyway! its difficult when they say u suck at chess....it makes me feel bad and i don't want to play anymore! 

Just remember...

When someone goes out of the way to be mean to you.  Its a reflection of their life.  It may not lessen the sting of the comment(s), but hopefully it gives you some ability to forgive.

ok thanks, at least you admit it. next step is to walk the talk.

Yes.....other people might be trying to make other people feel bad! Then the other people take it out on them! it has happened to me before...i had a friend how bullied me and then i started bullying someone else! Then it struck me...I shouldn't have taken it out on someone else because it wasn't fair! it wasn't fair to me to let that kid bully me and then me take it out on someone else! so i went a said sorry to the person i bullied....then i asked the girl who bullied me and i asked..why do you bully people....She said because someone bullied me a little while a ago and its not fair that i should be the only one being bullied that's why! BOOM! right there right when she said that it struck me! that's why i did it! because it wan't FAIR!

Puppernes

That's very good!

Puppernes

Don't if someone sees u being scared that they r bullying u they WILL do it more!

Puppernes

Plz just keep in mind! don't ever think it is not fair that u r the only one getting bullied! PLZ! its not fair to u i know....but why don't u go ASK the person that is bullying u! And then u can tell them what u want it might not be fair to them that they got bullied so they r bullying other people tell them to stop! its just making MORE bullys! not less!!!!!!!!!!! trust me! it has happened to me before!!!

batgirl
ghost_of_pushwood wrote:
 

Everybody's got their own way of putting people down...

Everyone has his/her own way of dealing with (combatting) it.

batgirl
ghost_of_pushwood wrote:

Yes, but all too often it ends up looking pretty much like the same way...

Ignoring it looks nothing the same way.

52yrral

Did you get that one ghost?

Puppernes

Yah

52yrral

50-50, not bad!

52yrral

Mine's mostly hindsite!

Puppernes

oof!

Puppernes

lmao! XD

MammalBrain
MammalBrain wrote:

Yes NobleGopher I think sometimes those who have have been stung take it out on others later. In any case it's their own insecurity getting the better of them. 

As I say, we all have our own way of putting people down... wink.png

 

Yes, "as I say' we all have our own way of spewing our insecurities on other in hopes our stock will rise,

Stivan23dunlop

Tell them u have a pet dinosaur and that dinosaur is called bonersaurus. Failing that find a Mr miyagi and ask him to teach you karate so that you may defend yourself or perhaps moving with the times instruct you on how to play Tekken where you may karatasize your cyber bully 

VanceLeFinal

Ez, I would just turn on stockfish and clap them the next 5 rounds 

 

 

 

 

now u mad!