How to deal with opponents asking me to play faster? everytime they ask me to play faster i blunder

Thanks i will remeber that

are you reading chat or are you playing chat figure out why you are here?

For me, I suggest that if they want you to play faster, you could ask them why? Are they leaving the site soon, going on a long vacation, what?

Also suggest to them that they can play live chess, or choose only faster moving opponents. If the time control is 3 days/move, then you have the right to use all 3 days each move. If you needed to make a move every 3 hours or so, it would say so.