I am losing touch with my son because of chess

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Hattie88

this "SINGLE Father" is actually a kid

autobunny
Hattie88 wrote:

this "SINGLE Father" is actually a kid

https://www.chess.com/forum/view/community/why-the-forums-still-need-fouad

BigBroChess

You are a horrible father; you should be happy about your nine your old son beating you! And he's just a kid, so deal with it.

BigBroChess

@mgx9600 Hitting kids only teaches them that beating people up is the right thing to do. PS The kid never did anything wrong in the first place.

FlashyFerrari
BigBroChess wrote:

You are a horrible father; you should be happy about your nine your old son beating you! And he's just a kid, so deal with it.

I would hit my kid too if he said "checkmate with advantage"

Destiny
Hattie88 wrote:

this "SINGLE Father" is actually a kid

It's 2019, it's time to accept teen pregnancy into our culture.

autobunny
NonSequitur7 wrote:
Hattie88 wrote:

this "SINGLE Father" is actually a kid

It's 2019, it's time to accept teen pregnancy into our culture.

And teen male pregnancy as well.   No one left behind! 

Templar81
MickinMD a écrit :

Can I ask why it bothered you when your 9 year old crowed about winning?

We have an 11 year-old in our extended family and there are times when he gets a little carried away when he does well in games against me (Monopoly, soccer, etc.) but I'm glad to see him excel so it doesn't bother me.  It he gets TOO carried away, it's enough to tell him to calm down and he does.  That may be something you could work on with your son.

I would NOT take away his access to chess, etc. as a punishment. That's retarding his advancement.

Offcourse not, you are not his father, it's not your son ,it's a big difference. Dont take IT personaly but pedlers Who are trying to Play the role of the fathers  while the kid has his real father make me Mad. Leave that to his father. 

JStofey

Maybe you should have watched the videos first, so you would have a clear idea of what you are telling your son to learn, and whether or not it would be appropriate for him.

TheBestBeer_Root
mgx9600 wrote:
krikorian12 wrote:
mgx9600 wrote:
Monie49 wrote:
Grow a pair

 

It isn't PC (or even legal) to hit kids these days... that's why we hear so many parenting and problem children isuses.  In the good old days, a good spanking would have cured his son quickly and effectively.

 

People who have to resort to hitting their kids are morons. Truth hurts.

 

Not all change is good. <-- This statement is truthful, unlike yours.

 

Violence IS PATHETIC.. That’s A Fact! You like that?

 

....... 😂 ...just realized thread older than a yr.

TheBestBeer_Root
JStofey wrote:

Maybe you should have watched the videos first, so you would have a clear idea of what you are telling your son to learn, and whether or not it would be appropriate for him.

Definitely 

TheBestBeer_Root
BigBroChess wrote:

You are a horrible father; you should be happy about your nine your old son beating you! And he's just a kid, so deal with it.

Be glad it’s not your kid, you having to be in his shoes. I do though agree the Dad should help encourage his great playing abilities rather than being any offense his growth.

GGuessMyName

The op is obviously trolling.

GM_Alphazer0

There kids on chess.com so it would be very disturbing to them if they read this.

 

autobunny
Speedcuber11 wrote:

There kids on chess.com so it would be very disturbing to them if they read this.

You bumped this and made it more available to them. You must not like kids. 

Edit: forgot the obligatory doge again

BornAgainFlatEarther

This is way late but "Cry Like A Grandmaster is a book of witticisms from GM Ben Finegold....it's COMEDY.     I hope you've lightened up.

Tja_05

Going to assume this is a troll post

BornAgainFlatEarther

And you would be wrong.

https://ccscatlmerch.com/products/cry-like-a-grandmaster

Never assume.

ColdStroganoff
mgx9600 wrote:
Monie49 wrote:
Grow a pair

 

It isn't PC (or even legal) to hit kids these days... that's why we hear so many parenting and problem children isuses.  In the good old days, a good spanking would have cured his son quickly and effectively.

 

that's called child abuse, and leads to resentment and as a result, disconnect between you and your kids. You teach your kid chess and your only go-to is to hit them when they get cocky? You are a coward and a fool.

UnclePeet
Hitting a kid is NOT child abuse

Child abuse is a legal term and has a definition

And hitting a child is legal in ALL states
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