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frightfulinvestor

the more you lose the easier your opponent will become

kaspariano
catfishman_incel wrote:

 

frightfulinvestor wrote:

 

the more you lose the easier your opponent will become

 

dating is easy if you are attractive enough

 

 

Figuring out exactly what attracts women to some men is a difficult task.  My father was not an attractive man, he was just tall, kind of ugly in the face, but he had a strong body and tone of voice, and the personality of a president.  He had a lot of beautiful females in his life time.

JayeshSinhaChess

You mean like chess, dating must end in a mating attack of some kind.

JayeshSinhaChess

Also I re-read the OP.

 

"The more you lose the easier your opponent will become."

 

If you treat the people you are trying to date as "opponents', then that explains why you had to make this thread in the first place.

lfPatriotGames
cottonsock wrote:
Well Trump hasn’t done so bad , and he’s not good looking,
Guess it was something else, that made him attractive.

That might be what IMBacon was saying. I agree good looking is not the same as attractive. Some people, like you suggest, are not good looking but ARE attractive. There are so many traits that make someone attractive, like confidence, ability to get things done, intelligence, sense of humor, sincerity, and yes ability to negotiate. All of these things might come in handy during a game a chess.

brianchesscake
lfPatriotGames wrote:

That might be what IMBacon was saying. I agree good looking is not the same as attractive. Some people, like you suggest, are not good looking but ARE attractive. There are so many traits that make someone attractive, like confidence, ability to get things done, intelligence, sense of humor, sincerity, and yes ability to negotiate. All of these things might come in handy during a game a chess.

It's scientific fact that women are attracted to a relatively wider range of qualities whereas men are generally more visual in what they find attractive. Not that other factors don't matter for men, but just that women are more perceptive to picking up on them so they process all of these things together and make a decision based on several attributes. Simply different ways the brain is wired between the genders, neither is superior.

Acroduster

There are lots of available women at Walmart , If you don’t mind stab wounds, felonies or visiting their relatives in prison. 

Drunken_Shrimp

This is officially the weirdest forum ever!

Drunken_Shrimp

Waaaaaaaa!

Drunken_Shrimp

For me, I feel that they are about the same for difficulty

ziplinekitkat

catfishman_incel wrote:

frightfulinvestor wrote:

the more you lose the easier your opponent will become

dating is easy if you are attractive enough

apparently he is not attractive haha

Drunken_Shrimp
ziplinekitkat wrote:

 

catfishman_incel wrote:

 

 

frightfulinvestor wrote:

 

the more you lose the easier your opponent will become

 

dating is easy if you are attractive enough

 

 

apparently he is not attractive haha

 

Ah Ha ha

Ziryab
Money helps. Women think men with money are successful, even if they inherit $700 million from their dad.
Drunken_Shrimp

i inherited my dad's house; a cardboard box

Drunken_Shrimp

it's pretty spacious

Drunken_Shrimp

me at night in my house

autobunny
frightfulinvestor wrote:

the more you lose the easier your opponent will become

it does.  just have to understand what easy means here ...

Drunken_Shrimp

hey ghost!

Drunken_Shrimp

oops

Ziryab
ghost_of_pushwood wrote:

One way that dating (at least, if it's a dinner date) is like chess:  in both activities, you're sitting at a table.

 

There are more comparisons drawn out in the second section of "The Waste Land" by T. S. Eliot.

https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/47311/the-waste-land