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if you dont attened one of the games in tournaments in real life would you lose elo points
No.
5. Unplayed Games
5.1 Whether these occur because of forfeiture or any other reason, they are not counted. Except in case of force majeure, any game where both players have made at least one move will be rated, unless the regulations relating to Fair Play require otherwise.
https://handbook.fide.com/chapter/B022022
if you dont attend one of the games in rated games would you lose elo points !?!?