im telling my sister chess is fun but she won't play it can you help me convince her to play?

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Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

any ideas?

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Years ago, I felt the same way about convincing family members to play chess. Feeling like you are begging them isn't the way to do it. The reality is that you can't force them to play and enjoy it. It's like the saying, "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink."

The best you can do is let your sister see how fun chess can be for you and create the environment for them to try if interested, but there's a good chance they'll never be interested and that's their choice to make.

The same is true for chess-loving parents wanting to get their children into chess. You have to have them around the chess environment. Maybe play with the chess pieces, or see you playing chess; let them get interested naturally and create a fun learning environment for them if they do show interest, but some will never show interest and that's their decision for themselves.

Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

do you have a way to get her to try because she won't even try it

Avatar of KeSetoKaiba
Ian-the-destroyer wrote:

do you have a way to get her to try because she won't even try it

If she doesn't want to try it, then trying to force her to try is more likely to make her not want to play. You really can't do anything to make them try; all you can do is create the right environment and be encouraging if she does want to try.

Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

okay

Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

i will let her decide if she wants to play or not

Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

if not its okay

Avatar of Mid-KnightRider
Ian-the-destroyer wrote:

any ideas?

Go to chess events, and eventually if she likes you she will join, or say you will give her $100 if she beats you, and who could say no?

Avatar of Mid-KnightRider

Don't push it too much.

Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

maybe

Avatar of beastAra123

😎 Dude, just show her some GothamChess videos...

Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

oh okay

Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

im playing one right now lol

Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

i hope she likes it

Avatar of BasixWhiteBoy

Tell her I'll go out with her if she plays.

Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

chill

Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

she's my sister

Avatar of Ian-the-destroyer

chillllllllllllllllllllllllll

Avatar of Mid-KnightRider
BasixWhiteBoy wrote:

Tell her I'll go out with her if she plays.

Get lost

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It'll work, trust me.