Isn't it rude to offer a draw when you are losing?

AND THEN WE ARE GONNA RIP OUT OUR TESTICLES!!!!!!!

THEN WERE GONNA STUFF REAL NUTS UP OUR BALL SACK

Me= "alright i'm out"

Are you ok?

You'll get over it.

I wouldn't say it's rude, I'd say it's lame. Rude means that an action should offend you while lame means that an action should make you roll your eyes and think less of the person. If you're losing, show some self-respect and pride and take it with dignity.

That said, I almost always offer draws when someone obviously makes a mouse slip and blunders a piece, but I realize that I'm in the minority. Most people would rather just teabag the noob and laugh at them for their stupidity. Meh, not my style.

I have someone offer a draw the move before I had checkmate so I messaged him and said did you mean to hit the resign button and he responded with no I was hoping you were nice.........me: 😯😯🙃

Sometimes they hit the wrong button. 

What I meant was it's a last ditch effort to try something, even though it has little chance of working. I always thought that was called a hail mary. 

A silly draw offer isn't the same like going for a stalemate or a trap. Do you really want to get a draw because your opponent feels pitty for you? I understand why children do it. But any self-respecting adult should resign (or continue playing till mate).

I find that different chess players define "losing" in various ways, often determined by level of experience/knowledge. At my level (low/barely above beginner), "losing" means I'm down a bunch of material and/or about to get checkmated and/or I have no clear way to attack/check my opponent. But more experienced players seem to define "losing" as "slightly worse pawn structure" or "Stockfish would rate this position -1.32" or something.

I agree. I've never done that but I understand why other people do. they are trying for a last ditch effort, that apparently sometimes works. I prefer to play til mate which is why I rarely offer or accept draw offers. 

I've had lower rated players there were in lost positions offer a draw because they did not understand the position.  One time they made the offer and I quietly moved.  They responded and said "I don't see how you can make any progress".  Their resignation was four moves later.

No point of offering a draw because the winning side will not accept the draw

I rarely propose draw, but when I do it is because I don't think I can win and I can't see how I could lose. But the last Time, I was in a symetrical position, queens on the board... Nothing to do for my oponent but one dangerous queen move. I check that move and find a perpetual check... proud about finding that I propose draw. My oponent refuse, play the Queen move... And then I see my calculation was wrong. He plays a move  I didn't consider, my perpetual is not perpetual, my position collapse in a couple of moves. My point is you never know if your oponent knows he is in a losing position (ok sometime you know).

And that's why chess is chess. Sometimes someone is in a clearly losing position, but it's actually drawn or even winning. We don't all know the exact same things. 

It does happen where the player offering the draw in a "losing" position is actually winning and the draw offer is just the player being nice. 

Or even better when the player offering the draw thinks they're in the losing position but is actually winning. Reminds me of those games where players resign when they're the ones with the upper hand because they missed it. 

Guess What all lower rated players offer draws when they are losing or else they time out.

At least that's my experience

There is a child in tournaments I help run (online) the past two years, who always offers a draw as soon as he is down a piece. The improvement since early 2020 is that he no longer offers a draw twenty times in one game.

His behavior is always rude. I have confronted him several times.

I am the tournament director. I observed this behavior in online play (on Lichess where draw offers are visible to all). One draw offer every single lost game is a clear pattern of poor sportsmanship.