I strongly disagree with the OP. Think about it: as you get stronger, you start to convert tiny advantages that are invisible to everyone else.
Isn't that sweet? You understand chess so well that you can see the chances, you can see the ideas even in positions where it looks like there aren't any. Every little part of the game -- space, initiative, pawns, winning endgames, attacks, square control, outposts -- you appreciate on such a deep level. Do you know Aron Nimzowitsch? His wife was the open file.



P.S. In the "silly game" you posted above. 28)...QxRa1 29)BxQa1 RxBa1, and Black has a very easy endgame win, with an extra rook and knight.
How could you mess up that "easy win" so badly? I conjecture it wasn't a "Live Chess" game either (as you claim above). Since it doesn't appear in your archive.
What's up with the OP and his thread. It all smells "a bit fishy."