Just friendly advice for some of you who play OTB

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Drawgood
I think many of you will agree with this. Many chess players who play against another person over the board absolutely do not know how to shake hands properly. It is no big deal but it is awkward and sometimes it makes people look bad. It is excusable for kids; but I've played grown men who have no idea that a handshake means you lightly queeze your opponents hand. Do not just extend your limo hand like a princess who is expecting a prince to kiss it. Lol
Drawgood
kaynight wrote:

Gawwd...someone else with a Ph.d in the bleeding obvious.

It's not that obvious because of how common it is to encounter players who don't know how to shake hands. Maybe if you play players who are from Europe you won't encounter this. Here in United States it's a problem.

Drawgood
morethantwentycharac wrote:

You're one of those guys who crushes people's flanges in an effort to contradict all of the rumors circulating about him.  This princess has had to visit the ER after meeting people like you.

Honestly I don't crush people's hands. lol

ANOK1

i used to regularly visit this old bloke in a retirement home , he was a mean chess player , i learned loads from him ,

he had a barely touch your fingers handshake , i didnt mind ,

Ziggy_Zugzwang

I think there is a wide range of grip strengths between people. Sometimes a limp handshake is just a sign that one's own grip is relatively stronger than the other persons. Too firm a handshake can be painful for people with arthritis.

blueemu
Drawgood wrote:
Do not just extend your limp hand like a princess who is expecting a prince to kiss it. Lol

That sounds like the problem, right there.

u0110001101101000

This is a public service announcement to the WORLD. Please do things my way. I can't handle things that are different. In fact, if you do things differently you're probably a queer. Just kidding, but honestly princess...

 

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My impersonation of the OP

bong711

Instead of handshake, why not just hug. The best hug is a bear hug. angry.png

eaguiraud

I agree with the OP.

sirrichardburton

Honestly i couldn't care less how someone shakes my hand nor do i care if they do it at all. I am only concerned with how strong their chess is.

dfgh123

that is okay if you have similar hand size, but what if you have a smaller hand than your opponent? your hand will be engulfed and you will have no leverage to squeeze

urk

What if I have sweaty hands? I'm not applying for a job from you, I'm not obligated to shake your germy hand, and I really don't want to want to. So don't even stick your paw out at me. Just signing the score sheet to certify that you lost is enough.

dpnorman
Drawgood wrote:
I think many of you will agree with this. Many chess players who play against another person over the board absolutely do not know how to shake hands properly. It is no big deal but it is awkward and sometimes it makes people look bad. It is excusable for kids; but I've played grown men who have no idea that a handshake means you lightly queeze your opponents hand. Do not just extend your limo hand like a princess who is expecting a prince to kiss it. Lol

 

This is about the least important part of tournament chess, although I can sorta agree

Barry_Helafonte2

i like OTB because you can see the person you are playing