I don´t have personal expirience, but reading some profile text of male and female players I see one big difference: Female players seem to get many such messages, because they write that they don´t like that intheir profile text.
If the group of people who act like you discribed read these text at all is a different story.
Just want to highlight this. Everyday messages asking for private info, pictures, am I married, do I like s3x, sometimes outright abuse.
Anyone else get this? I'm sure I'm not alone.
Seems to be a large % from one nation (I'm not naming it, but we share the same colours on a flag)