For me, chess.com purely for the fact that you can reset your account. If Lichess let you did this, or if chess.com prevented that then I'd play on lichess
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Also rating system is very different on both sites.
Lichess - if you ONLY have a knight left you win, when your opponent runs out of time!
Chess.com - draw same scenario
That's just one example