I've tried telling him but he won't listen to me. I also don't think that I'll be able to find it all by myself which is why I appreciate other people's opinions on this.
He is definitely an attacking player like you, but also very cautious, usually. So you agree that the tumbling starts in the opening? The engine doesn't really identify any of his beginning positions as a known opening, so what is he doing there?
and s/t else. why are YOU worried about it ? are u being a sock puppet and its actually you ?
anyway, w/e it is ?....member that chess is pretty much a game of skill and so u (or w/e it is) has had a massive semi-irreversible confidence meltdown. sad.
i strongly suggest taking some time off and quit overthinking e/t. iows, quit taking chess so hellaseriously. If ur playing FIDE master chess ?....and uv been stuck there for 2 yrs ?....then u probably dont have the talent to get to plain-vanilla GM in 200 yrs. face that reality and realize that any light at the end of the tunnel is probably a night train coming to destroy any assemblance of leftover confidence that ur scrambling to gob together.
s/t ppl needta hear the truth as opposed to being handfed cotton candy. sorry (kinda).
Ha too true , that will get you in trouble just as quick as too much aggression