You last sentence is absolutely right !!!
One day I was playing a friendly game against a friend that I was absolutely owning Rooks, Queen, etc and instead of checkmating him I went to 5 Queens and still avoided stalemate..then decided to checkmate him
So What are the Traps,Tactics,Combinations,etc,etc ... that u hate to fall into/get caught in (other than that inescapable Final Checkmate ie) ?
Mine has always been :
1)the Knight Fork on my Queen and King n there's clearly no way of taking that Irritating,Merciless Knight .. resulting in utter feelings of helplessness/despair/gloom .. there's juz nothing one can do but to move the King n loose one's Queen simultaneously !!! ( but good thing ,nowadays I don't fall into this so much anymore cuz I've learnt to prevent this from happening .. It's soooo Nice when u get to do it on yr Opponent tho, hehe !
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2)when one has a clearly Winning Position in the End Game (whether with quite a number of or only a few pieces left against one's opponent's King n a few of his other pieces) ... but then gets a 'Stalemate' instead of a 'Win by Checkmate',probably due to lack of precise calculation ! ....... I keep falling into this lately ( whilst playing with the Computers on Live),n got pretty mad with myself ... like one time I tried to be funny n wanted to get a third Queen (Pawn Promotion) cuz he only got his sole king left while I had Queens,Rook n Pawns n had taken all his pawns .. then before I cld get it ,the game was drawn by Stalemate !!! .. guess my lesson is not to fool/wait around too long but to checkmate my opponent in the shortest ,fastest way possible !