Good questions jr87. It comes down to whether carrots work better than sticks. Personally, I like carrots but with others I use stick. So, I get to keep it both ways. hehehe
I like to be as cruel as I can, because I'm not that nice! If my opponent is crying, then I've played well. Only joking. I think some of the IMs feel like that though.
How would you best describe positive chess school? Ex Fischer's games