At least you’ve got the right attitude about it. Even if it’s annoying in the moment, it sounds like you’re already using it as fuel to push forward, which is more than I usually manage after a frustrating game.
Hang in there—you’re definitely not alone in this!
Dunno what made me think playing a rapid chess game after a lengthy pause, just to get some dopamine, was a good idea. Turns out I can't play without spending more time on improving my vision and calculation, so I lost. At least this pushes me further away from my bad habits, I guess.