To be honest sometimes I dont rematch because I dont want to lose again.
Offer the rematch

To be honest sometimes I dont rematch because I dont want to lose again.
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An innocent confessions. I love your honesty. May you always be lucky player at the next sessions.

Ronald_Aprianto wrote:
I've often warned the players, if their opponent offer the rematch, they should be firmly responded: accept or decline, don't get confused and just leave it, such as women or effeminate. One could argue that they are offline or have found a partner of new games, but I could find out the truth by check ping and I followed them. In fact, they are online and are not playing. In short, Abandonment is an indirect harassment.What should we do if we find players like this?
Lou : you could find out the truth by pinging? And you feel abused because somebody walks away from your offer? Sorry, but this is called stalking.

Lou : you could find out the truth by pinging? And you feel abused because somebody walks away from your offer? Sorry, but this is called stalking.
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we could find out the truth about: are they still online by pinging. I feel abused because somebody walks away from my offer without stated firmly. I'm stalking them so I know they have already find a new opponent or not. Excuse me, do you have a grasp of all the main points of my explanation?

Thank you!
I'm glad somebody else noticed the really creepy sense of entitlement here, which would have been icky even if he hadn't thrown in a dig at half the planet's population.
(And, yes - men sometimes try to keep women from extracting themselves from social situations by asking unwanted questions and demanding a response, so the parallels here are not trivial).
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My explanation that has been said before, it's not as complicated as yours. Take it easy !

Not a problem. Maybe just go have a beer. I've had people not rematch me & I never think anything of it if they dont respond. Somebody couldve just knocked on their door right then or they mightve spilled coffee on the computer or theyre in an argument for spending too much time on the computer, there are many reasons people dont respond or rematch. Just go get drunk (& play blitz like me, its the only time I do) & don't worry about it, it could be any reason.

Ronald, i have more than a grasp of what you call your explanation. You do not seem to grasp yourself that you present yourself here as an obsessed stalker that demands from people that they follow his rules or he chases them around. Perhaps you are part of some macho brotherhood that believes this to be normal behavior, but it is not.

No rematches for anyone!! Fresh out, so sorry...............
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Nope, we reserve the right to not play again. My point is a firm dealing with an offer to rematch with the push button accept or declaine. Just as simple as this, if you see a warning about it.
I think it does hurt and the solution, if needed, is that----a track record, affecting points and, to some extent, ratings be introduced to keep check on such inclination on the part of NAUGHTY devients/members.

this is the topic of the century. thanks to you i have a newfound resolve to not hit accept nor decline so i can annoy users like you that may have stereotypes about women/effeminates. i can only hope i annoy them enough so that they post in the forums and whine about it too.

Ronald, you are too seriously...IMO, if you wanna play in FIDE Regulation, you have to play at FIDE Turnament!!
but now you just play in Site...no matter the reason is playing in site is not like official turnament or match..it is just maybe fun or sight seeing....
if you wanna more seriously match with other opponent than you must deal or something gentlement agreement...
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Yes we already know, we were just playing on the site ... and I agree that it might just be fun or sight seeing ...., but I noticed that it is better if the player has a firmness to offer a rematch of their opponents. It's very simple, we just press a button to accept or declaine. I'm sorry, if the offer of a rematch ignored without any definite response. This is very annoying and a waste of time. !
I don´t want to waste my time pressing the decline button after every game that I win (because of course, it´s strange that any of this complainers offer rematches when they win).
It would be very annoying to having to press "decline" before being able to get a new game.
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We followed them to see what they do so that requests a rematch unanswered, lol.