I think we are discussing an important point possibly a very very important point that has to be taken up to the highest level.
Chess is at one point which brings an adult and a child in close contact. ( as players and also as a coach and guide. ) In england all who come in close contact with the children professinally has to undergo police vetting. I do not know about the US.
In india I came across a story where a chess teaher ( may not be rated ) was arrested. ( the reason is implied in the contest )
Batgirl brought up an interesting point in her post -- one of those things that's kinda "known" but not "discussed" --
Paul Morphy was gay. Not in the ravenous, flaming gay style like Oscar Wilde, but more in the middle-class proper "Victorian" way.
He's a well respected man about town, doing the best things most conservatively.
(The Kinks)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eq5WmHBSVa0