Problem with 'abort' button

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So I have a compliant from my 21 year old wife. I am 64 (hehe boy aint it a coincidence!) and after our first marriage due to complacency we had to finish our fetish. Now everytime my wife logs off into computer to see me play and I constantly abort within first three moves, it reminds her of the terrible and tragic and traumatic incidence. 

Is there anyway to remove the button?

Thanks for understanding.

And if anyone's interested, we are blessed with a big and bouncy beautiful baby daughter.