Put simply: be nice, no cheating!

this is a incoherence ,  chess i a competitive game, as our society ,  if you don´t win you can´t be nice ( i mean when you are a  classic patzer )    

the most competitive players hate lose games,  usually they control themselves but you can´t ask for this to all chess community .   

"Chess.com is a friendly community for those who love chess! Please be on your best behavior as you play chess and interact with others. Failure to follow these rules will result in your account being closed."

As i said before,  this is a incoherence,   It's like all democracies in the world , you can´t live in a democracy when the economic system is capitalism. Capitalism  Total incoherence.   In chess the same,  this game is competitive, dangerous indeed,  you ´ve to be ready to lose .   You can´t play competitive chess if you don´t learn to lose  ( the big paradox)  

but  when external factors appear ( someone cheats to you)  or the stupid rule in chess.com when u make a triple repetition ( draws are not automatic) .  Ok , so here is pretty normal  lose your nerves,  ¿ u know what i mean? It´s like if you are in a lunch with a rich family and a rich man says " i hate money "    a bit hypocrite right? 

Let's be frank,   Chess is a sick game ,  our society too,  but if we want to put rules like this,  ¿ are not we increasing the disease?