I hope you don't mind a bit of friendly leg pulling Alison, but shouldn't you on principle be Alidaughter ?
But seriously...Shouldn't Women Grand Masters be called Grand Mistresses ?
Ziggy, you remind me of my visits to Rekjavik. Did you know that the phone books in Iceland are listed by the "first" name?! The naming convention there follows the old Viking style, in which the child takes the father's name as -son or -dottir. It is not a "surname," but rather. a "patronymic." From the Nordic countries we recognize these now patronymic surnames with the endings -son and -sen.
Other cultures have had similar conventions. For instance, in old Welch, following a Celtic tradition, the use of "ap" (son of) was formerly common. And example would be Thomas ap Catesby Jones (Thomas son of Catesby Jones), who was a notable Welsh-American naval officer in the early 1800s.
I find naming conventions fascinating.
God and Jesus are also depicted as white men with beards.
But everyone understands there's no gender attached. A white man is totally neutral and representative of all people, obviously. Where did you go to school anyway?
God is "He" the "Father" is definitely neutral also, and not due to the fact that Judaism and Christianity came from barbaric, sexist, patriarchal societies.