Resign or make them check mate?

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Avatar of tomtryto

Is it more polite to resign or give your opponent the opportunity to check mate you, when you know that you will probaly lose?

Avatar of tomtryto

I prefer when people let me finish because it tests my skill, especially on a timed game.

Avatar of Blackfoxx

I prefer they resign, it's polite to show you are confident the opponent can win the game and imo it's just... annoying if they just keep and keep playing, as if they hope I will stalemate them or anything.

Avatar of Iluvsmetuna

If you want to be polite, just resign on move 1.

Avatar of Aliggator

Would resigner?!

Avatar of Blackfoxx
Iluvsmetuna wrote:

If you want to be polite, just resign on move 1.

It's unpolite to not have a game at all. It's not just about lil numbers behind your name, you know. But indeed a better word would have been ''respectful''

Avatar of Jenium

It is considered to be more polite to resign when you are sure there is no way you can escape defeat. Especially in games with longer time controls there is no point in wasting your and your opponent's time.

Exceptions might be blitz, bullet, really weak opponents who don't know how to deliver mate, if you want to allow your opponent to finish a pretty mating attack, or if you want to learn by studying your opponent's mating technique.

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Jenium wrote:

It is considered to be more polite to resign when you are sure there is no way you can escape defeat. Especially in games with longer time controls there is no point in wasting your and your opponent's time.

Exceptions might be blitz, bullet, really weak opponents who don't know how to deliver mate, if you want to allow your opponent to finish a pretty mating attack, or if you want to learn by studying your opponent's mating technique.

Cool I agree 100%.

Avatar of Iluvsmetuna

I stand corrected apparently.

Avatar of Danny_BLT

noone likes to lose, move on. quickly.

Avatar of MSteen

It's your choice. But by all means, if you find that mate is 2 or 3 moves away and you choose not to resign, PLAY. Don't drag out the time control, whether it's 30 minutes or 7 days. Play the moves you have to play, lose and move on. Nothing makes your opponent hate you more than just sitting there, refusing to make the only move available to you.

Avatar of cabavyras

Always resign and be a "man" (might be as woman as well :) ) and admit loss.

Avatar of Brian-E

The question to ask yourself is: does your opponent have to expend any mental effort to win? If so, play on. If not, resign because you're wasting his or her time by playing on.

Avatar of Iluvsmetuna

It's the kind of question one really shouldn't need to ask.

Avatar of Iluvsmetuna

But if he's supposed to be the only one talking sense, how are we to take his post after your comment, Alex ?

Avatar of NothingIsForSho

If the goal is to be polite then I would say just resign if you know you're totally lost. 

Avatar of MrKornKid

I'd rather be checkmated to see how it was done and try to avoid that sequence of moves next time.  If I am losing bad i'll just resign. 

Avatar of dr_VINCENT_ZURIA

I prefer to resign in such situation.

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Iluvsmetuna wrote:

It's the kind of question one really shouldn't need to ask.

It's rather the kind of question one should look into the forums.

Avatar of tactacian

i was once 2 pawns down in an end game (i had no pawns and my opponent had 2 conected) and i got stalemated