I enjoy the presence of anybody who posts on these forums
so +1
Threads like this pop up all the time. Usually they are met with mockery, because someone that no one has heard of is asking a bunch of strangers if he should stay or go.
No. Asking strangers for help is the point of the forums. These threads are met by mockery and ridicule because they are just attention seeking and useless. Like when your girl tells you she's ugly or fat, even though she knows she's not but she's just fishing for compliments. Same as with these people who already know if they will stay or go but they fish for attention, they want people, complete strangers no less, to come and say "oh you're so great bla bla" just to feed their little ego's and feel less lonely than they actually are. It's sad, pathetic and childish. And because it's clear as day that the OP is young, it's better we tell him this now because when he grows up this kind of behavior will be ruthlessly punished in the real world.
so 1- or 1+